Toxic relationship

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Toxic relationship

Postby efall14 » Wed May 19, 2021 2:10 am

I have a boyfriend who I love and all but he's always controlling me and telling me who I can and can't talk to. Hes get up me because I didn't pick up even when I told him I was busy. On my birthday he wanted nothing but to argue and didn't wish me happy birthday. He's always moody and getting up me for little things. I don't know what to do. Please help.
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Re: Toxic relationship

Postby brookie_cookie » Wed May 19, 2021 2:12 am

leave him. it’s so simple, hon. been in one of the these relationships, fucked me up. please break up with him.
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Re: Toxic relationship

Postby Selenelion » Wed May 19, 2021 2:14 am

Yes. Leave him.
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Re: Toxic relationship

Postby efall14 » Wed May 19, 2021 2:59 am

I know I should but its so hard. I really love him.
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Re: Toxic relationship

Postby brookie_cookie » Wed May 19, 2021 3:00 am

okay, i get that.

just remember how he makes you feel. if he makes you feel so awful, why stay? why punish yourself when you’ve done nothing?
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Re: Toxic relationship

Postby efall14 » Wed May 19, 2021 3:03 am

He always makes me feel like I've done something wrong. I don't get it? Is it me? Am I not pretty enough? Am I to weak? Why is it always my fault tho
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Re: Toxic relationship

Postby brookie_cookie » Wed May 19, 2021 3:06 am

that’s exactly why you need to leave. he’s causing you to feel like you’re...worthless. but you’re not. this is going to damage your metal health further, and you need to end it asap.
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Re: Toxic relationship

Postby Wolves2018 » Wed May 19, 2021 3:15 am

You need to leave him sweetheart. You have done nothing wrong he needs to make you feel small to fit his egotistical ego. I don’t know how old you are but I’m sure you are young since you are on the teen section. Let me tell you that there is someone better out there for you. Simone who won’t think twice to tell you happy birthday. Someone who can make you feel like you are actually someone who is worthy. This boyfriend of yours doesn’t love you. It may sound harsh but it is true. Actions speak louder than words. Even with his words he is proving to you that he doesn’t care about you. You got your whole life ahead of you, why do you want to be confined to someone who can’t even respect you for who you are?
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Re: Toxic relationship

Postby efall14 » Wed May 19, 2021 3:40 am

Ok. I'm gonna talk to him. But how do I do it. How do I break up with him.
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Re: Toxic relationship

Postby brookie_cookie » Wed May 19, 2021 11:16 am

tell them the reasons, then say it’s OVER. do NOT let him negotiate with you on it.
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