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Bad relationship

Postby Amelia-15 » Sun Apr 11, 2021 6:47 pm

Ive been in a bad relationship for a long time. Ive tryed to breakup but then he threated to kill himself. When I ignored him he texted me bye and i found pills in his hand when I ran back to make sure he was ok. Im now being forced to stay other wise he wil try again or actually do it. I dont want to be in this relationship but I cant exacpe it. His family and my family all live together so he will always be there. He has cheated on me before and always checks my phone to see if im cheating on him. He is always paranoid that I will. We dont trust each other at all. Idk what to do anymore. Any advise?
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Re: Bad relationship

Postby PositiveVibes08 » Sun Apr 11, 2021 6:48 pm

You have to leave, this relationship isn't healthy for either of you.
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Re: Bad relationship

Postby QueerDragon » Sun Apr 11, 2021 6:51 pm

Yeah. He might just be threatening you to keep you in the relationship, that's not healthy in the slightest. You really need to leave, no matter how difficult it is. I believe in you, Amelie!
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Re: Bad relationship

Postby Amelia-15 » Sun Apr 11, 2021 6:52 pm

I cant though. I will be the cause of some one dying I cant live with that. I know for a fact he would really do it too. He is also the father of my son
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Re: Bad relationship

Postby WriterGirl » Sun Apr 11, 2021 6:52 pm

You should talk to an adult. He is obviously suicidal, or else guilting you to stay in a toxic relationship. It's called emotional manipulation and it's not okay. You need to get out of there.
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Re: Bad relationship

Postby WriterGirl » Sun Apr 11, 2021 6:52 pm

Can you try talking to his parents?
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Re: Bad relationship

Postby Amelia-15 » Sun Apr 11, 2021 6:53 pm

My son would be without a dad. No kid should be without their father
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Re: Bad relationship

Postby Amelia-15 » Sun Apr 11, 2021 6:53 pm

His parents dont care
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Re: Bad relationship

Postby Hunny_Grace » Sun Apr 11, 2021 6:53 pm

This might sound bad but take this as you will. Maybe you should fake a really bad tragedy and just act like an emotional wreck and tell him that yall should take a break, let me emphasize that you tell him yall are taking a break not breaking up, and then after a little while cut him off from you life completely
E.g block him on all social media, his phone number, and make sure he cant contact you because that is some serious manipulation that hes doing.
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Re: Bad relationship

Postby Amelia-15 » Sun Apr 11, 2021 6:54 pm

They would rather not have him here anyway
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