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Older man

Postby Her95 » Tue Dec 03, 2019 9:20 pm

I am attracted by a man who is working with me, I am 24 and he is 44.. such a big difference I guess.. the thing is me and my boyfriend are having s*x may be twice in a month.. the man is very nice with me an kiss my hand all the time . He is also married and I feel guilty that I am attracted by him. He is very smart and we talk about our ideas, we both love our jobs and we are thinking about the good of the company. I love that he opens the door all the time.. he is a real gentleman. What should I do ?
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Re: Older man

Postby Roxysmom45 » Tue Dec 03, 2019 9:37 pm

Don't do it. Keep it professionals!
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Re: Older man

Postby Virgo-Angel11 » Tue Dec 03, 2019 9:38 pm

You seriously asking what to do? Leave married men alone. Point blank period! Use that energy to focus on your own relationship and stay out of other people’s marriage. You want to entertain ideas that are wrong and you know this very well. Do better and respect yourself. I don’t sympathize with this type of funky plans and ideas, it makes my blood boil hay wow! As a woman you should know that this thing will come back to bite you 7times worse so just stop right now.
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Re: Older man

Postby Wolves2018 » Tue Dec 03, 2019 9:45 pm

This is wrong. He is married and you know about it but you don’t care. How would you feel if you were in the wife’s shoes. Break it off now.
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Re: Older man

Postby Nanije » Tue Dec 03, 2019 9:50 pm

Well, instead of falling in love with a married man and destroy his family life, your boyfriends life, you can set an END on this "story" and trie to fix up your relationship with your boyfriend. Maybe its not only your boyfriends fault that you are having s*x 2 times a week/month. Instead try to do the best out of it. If you give, your boyfriend, will also give. You have to give, to get something back.
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Re: Older man

Postby Blessed+38 » Tue Dec 03, 2019 11:51 pm

"You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."
Matthew 5:27-28

Bottom line, not a good idea.
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Re: Older man

Postby Nana777 » Wed Dec 04, 2019 3:56 am

Girl, don’t do it! ?
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Re: Older man

Postby Her95 » Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:25 am

I didn’t do anything. I just don’t know how to act, I am aware about his family and I love my boyfriend. I just like his behavior and I’ve never been in this situation
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Re: Older man

Postby Her95 » Wed Dec 04, 2019 6:38 am

I am trying to fix my relationship..since we moved together , last year, our sexual life has changed, we have problems before this man to show up, My boyfriend is always with His friends out and I am workaholic . Many times I was asking for days off just to spend time with him, I told him that I am interested in some couple therapy but he doesn’t want that.
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Re: Older man

Postby Virgo-Angel11 » Wed Dec 04, 2019 7:12 am

Everyone has their flaws so this friend thing is as equally damaging as constantly working. So maybe go out with him and the friends? Try to get him early enough to talk and cuddle, become romantically close again. I also think whatever nice gestures and attention you receive from other men will impact the way you receive your bf because you are frustrated by him.
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