intimacy

Relationship with your partner

Re: intimacy

Postby 786girl » Thu May 06, 2021 7:55 pm

I think you are a beautiful soul that wants to see the best in people. However, I do think your DH may be gay
786girl
 
Posts: 26
Joined: Thu May 06, 2021 7:53 pm

Re: intimacy

Postby Wambui mbugua » Fri May 07, 2021 4:15 pm

Move on with your life ...you partner clearly isn't into you anymore and there's nothing you can do about it. Don't live in an empty marriage
Wambui mbugua
 
Posts: 3
Joined: Fri May 07, 2021 4:11 pm

Re: intimacy

Postby GRT68 » Sat May 08, 2021 7:08 pm

That ain't cool. I've been there, I just left
GRT68
 
Posts: 1
Joined: Sat May 08, 2021 7:07 pm

Re: intimacy

Postby Sweetbossy84 » Sun May 09, 2021 12:51 pm

Sounds like he may be hetero A-sexual.
Sweetbossy84
 
Posts: 1
Joined: Sun May 09, 2021 12:50 pm

Re: intimacy

Postby -Maveryck- » Mon May 10, 2021 12:11 pm

Oh honey :( This sounds very serious. Very parallel with behaviors of extramarital affairs. You deserve so much better.
-Maveryck-
 
Posts: 2
Joined: Mon May 10, 2021 12:09 pm

Re: intimacy

Postby Anonymouslove » Mon May 10, 2021 6:23 pm

Honey its not you! The porn they watch makes them feel disconnected and eventually will cause problems in the relationship! It angrys me when things like this are not talked about when in reality its a huge problem!! Just look up the brain on porn... get him out of it or it will definitely take a toll in him and your relationship as this behavior becomes addicting..no matter how beautiful you are their brain will want more and more and more because its a High to them. Maybe ask yourself if he has a porn addiction and ask him as well? If he really loves you both can work at it but don't let him make you feel less of a woman because you are REAL! Blessings my dear and I hope you guys can work it out but living in an empty relationship will only take the best from you so please don't let it.
Anonymouslove
 
Posts: 2
Joined: Mon May 10, 2021 6:13 pm

Re: intimacy

Postby YellowTigerButterfly » Fri May 14, 2021 1:27 pm

He seems to be a narcissist with a narcissist mommy getting to him mentally, telling him stuff in his ear about you and your weight etc. He’s letting his Mommy influence too much of the relationship as he is searching for other narcissist “supply”. He already knows what you crave, touch as a love language, and he is doing a narcissist technique to deprive you of what you want so that you have to practically beg on him for your needs to be met while stringing you along. Maybe no one else realized the fact that your weight went down as a result of this says a lot! He’s sucking the energy out of you with this situation! Like a real energy vampire!
YellowTigerButterfly
 
Posts: 1
Joined: Fri May 14, 2021 1:13 pm

Re: intimacy

Postby Bee Davis » Sun May 16, 2021 9:36 pm

It's the porn.
Porn warps the mind
Bee Davis
 
Posts: 1
Joined: Sun May 16, 2021 9:33 pm

Re: intimacy

Postby Hrh2020 » Thu May 20, 2021 7:47 pm

So sorry about your situation. I know how it feels. I've been there but just that yours is too much. A whole year? That's too much.

How long have you been together and when this this no kissing no hugging start?

What's his temperament? If he is a choleric, then that's normal. Cholerics are naturally not affectionate. However have a chat with him, let him know how his behaviour is affecting you and hopefully he will try to adjust.

2nd check yourself to be sure you have no faul odor as this could also be pushing him away and he is unable to tell you because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

Wishing you luck. It shall be well.
Hrh2020
 
Posts: 1
Joined: Thu May 20, 2021 7:38 pm

Re: intimacy

Postby Sugars40 » Fri May 21, 2021 8:31 pm

Since its been so long.. give it another try. I feel your pain. I have been there at 1 point or another.
Try doing the abnormal.
If once upon a time you dressed up. Even if its to go to the grocery do so.
Think of what you did at the beginning and the first years of the relationship.
Make him remember. Sometime we have to initiate the move to rekindle.
I was told i was boring not sexy anymore.
It hurt but thinking about it.. life and all the hassle gets the best of us and we look for ways to make life easy.
Try it if you wish. Best of luck!
Sugars40
 
Posts: 1
Joined: Fri May 21, 2021 8:16 pm

PreviousNext

Return to Adult Relationship

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 5 guests