Thinking about having a second baby

Thinking about having a second baby

Postby Girl On Fire » Wed Apr 08, 2020 3:11 pm

Hello, everyone! Hope you all are fine. My first born has 2 years old and my delivery was caesarean. I'm 33 years old by now. I have been thinking of having a second one but I feel like I'm not ready... some people say that I could because I'm getting older. Any suggestions?? Thank you.❤
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Re: Thinking about having a second baby

Postby Rach88 » Thu Apr 16, 2020 11:11 am

If you are not ready don't go forward with it. Wait another year or so. I am 32 with a 2 year old as well. I am currently try this month to get pregnany because I want him to have a sibling. I would not say I am ready for juggling caring for two children but I think I am more mentally and financially prepared this time around for a new baby so I am feeling more relaxed about the possibility of becoming pregnant.
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Re: Thinking about having a second baby

Postby hanani_zulkefli » Fri Apr 17, 2020 2:39 am

hye...im hani 24 old, i have delivery my son by ceaser at may 2019 , my husband is getting older, so i want a second baby for this year 2020 but im afraid because the ceaseran.., the doctor suggest to get a baby at least my son 3 years old.., but my heart strong to get a baby this year too....guys! do u have any problem like me, if do may u share...tqq
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Re: Thinking about having a second baby

Postby flopsy » Fri Apr 17, 2020 6:02 am

My first baby was born in June 2005; my second was born July 2007. I had an emergency csection with my first and a vbac with the second.
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Re: Thinking about having a second baby

Postby Rach88 » Fri Apr 17, 2020 11:29 am

hanani_zulkefli wrote:hye...im hani 24 old, i have delivery my son by ceaser at may 2019 , my husband is getting older, so i want a second baby for this year 2020 but im afraid because the ceaseran.., the doctor suggest to get a baby at least my son 3 years old.., but my heart strong to get a baby this year too....guys! do u have any problem like me, if do may u share...tqq


Online says 18-24 months before you get pregnant again. So maybe you could wait until your son is 18 months to start trying. That way your body would have rested a bit more and you would get the baby july 2021. Which is early that waiting 3 years. Your body needs to heal don't rush into another pregnancy and possibly end up facing complications.
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Re: Thinking about having a second baby

Postby Moy » Thu Mar 25, 2021 11:49 pm

HI everyone
I'm 22 years old just had my first child (a boy) in November 2020 and to be honest I'm thinking of having a second child soon.
What do y'all think?
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Re: Thinking about having a second baby

Postby flopsy » Sat Mar 27, 2021 4:37 am

Totally up to you
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