should i tell or no??

should i tell or no??

Postby daedae » Sat Jan 05, 2013 11:26 pm

I'm 16, I've had s*x 6x my whole life with 3 boys. Idk if I should tell my mom I'm sexually active or what bc the last time I had s*x was the day after Christmas and it was unprotected and I'd been having minor lower stomach pains. One of my friends told me to wait to tell her. What should I do??
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Re: should i tell or no??

Postby angela » Sat Jan 05, 2013 11:34 pm

Is she neccesary to know?just take into consideration protected and safe s*x and do not forget the annual gyno check up
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Re: should i tell or no??

Postby Humble_N_Lovely » Thu Jan 10, 2013 12:22 am

I think u should tell ur mom...its good to not keep secrets so that there is no surprises and she can help u be safe.
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Re: should i tell or no??

Postby faithlove » Thu Jan 10, 2013 12:53 am

Yes I agree I think u should tell ur mom. Its good to have an open honest relationship with ur mom. N that way she can get u on birth control n condoms n help educate u...if she starts getn upset then tell her that ur telling her because ur tryin to be responsible about it...I don't agree with u having s*x at ur age and she prob won't either but ur gonna do it regardless. N like I said if u tell her bout it then hopefully she'll help u to b more responsible bout it...good luck
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Re: should i tell or no??

Postby jazyjay » Thu Jan 10, 2013 6:06 am

Honestly, yes you should. If you don't, your mom could found out in the worst way. It's best to be honest with your mom. Consider her as a best friend. In the end, she's the one that is always going to have your back.
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Re: should i tell or no??

Postby EllyBelle » Sun Jan 13, 2013 10:48 am

I agree!!! She's going to find out sooner or later if you are preg & it's better if you tell her first. You'll need her support & friendship to help you through this whatever happens. All the best x
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Re: should i tell or no??

Postby proud-momma » Mon Jan 14, 2013 4:52 am

U need to tell her. I got preg at 16 and hid it from my mom as long as i could and she was even more upset that I hid it becaause she didn't even know I was sexually active.
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Re: should i tell or no??

Postby LoveLexy » Mon Jan 14, 2013 5:00 am

CALL MTV!!

Im sorry that was uncalled for but it was kinda funny
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Re: should i tell or no??

Postby LoveLexy » Mon Jan 14, 2013 5:01 am

CALL MTV!!

Im sorry that was uncalled for but it was kinda funny
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Re: should i tell or no??

Postby gagelee » Mon Jan 28, 2013 10:54 am

in new zealand the legal age to have s*x is 16 and you can easily get birth control without permission or parent knowlage i suggest u make sure ur nt pregs first then talk to ur mum when u feel comfy birth control is important for younge ppl but so is being cumfy confinding in some one, telling ur mum will b awkard but it does need to bed done and especially if u need permission for birth control
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