Having the "Talk"

Having the "Talk"

Postby Meriaa » Sun May 05, 2013 9:25 pm

Ok.. So im 14 about to be 15 in 5 more months & my mom chooses to finally have "the talk" ... but yet its to late ): i feel soo wrong and alone it bothers me everyday, but yet the thing is shes very strict about everything... I have a bf i really like we been dating for 5months my father knows & sister but my ma expects me to be perfect... I dont know if i should tell her im not an virgin anymore or just wait.. ):
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Re: Having the "Talk"

Postby Humble_N_Lovely » Sun May 05, 2013 10:05 pm

Tell her so you can get on BC and be protected.
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Re: Having the "Talk"

Postby Meriaa » Sun May 05, 2013 10:09 pm

But im afraid of her response
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Re: Having the "Talk"

Postby faithlove » Sun May 05, 2013 10:17 pm

Wouldn't u be more afraid to tell her your pregnant or have an std?
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Re: Having the "Talk"

Postby Meriaa » Sun May 05, 2013 10:22 pm

Ok, so how do i tell her?
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Re: Having the "Talk"

Postby Humble_N_Lovely » Sun May 05, 2013 10:41 pm

You can say mom I know youve been trying to have the talk with me and I havent been interested...I am ready to have the talk, but I want you to know that I have been active and I want to be protected...theres nothing she can do you have already had s*x.
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Re: Having the "Talk"

Postby Meriaa » Sun May 05, 2013 10:52 pm

Ok thank you so much
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Re: Having the "Talk"

Postby faithlove » Sun May 05, 2013 10:52 pm

Yes and add to that...that u want to have an open honest relationship with her....that u need her to not criticize you...u need her support in making good decisions in life
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Re: Having the "Talk"

Postby Humble_N_Lovely » Sun May 05, 2013 11:25 pm

Let her know that you know she may think you are not being responsible but that you felt the responsible thing would be to tell her that you are active and want her to trust you and be there for you.
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Re: Having the "Talk"

Postby Meriaa » Sun May 05, 2013 11:26 pm

Thanks guise (:
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