How To...!!!

How To...!!!

Postby orchid » Tue Apr 02, 2013 9:35 pm

How do I tell my parents that I'm thinking about having s*x or already am having s*x. I'm not a loose girl and I'm not being pressured or anything. This is my own decision and I don't know how to tell them.
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Re: How To...!!!

Postby mama_lee » Fri Apr 12, 2013 5:53 am

There is no easy way to tell them just like there is no easy way for them to have the talk. Sit them down and start off easy like mom dad you know you both have raised a smart young lady and I I'm thankful for that. I'm an young adult now and ihave been or am thinkibg of having s*x I'm careful I know to be safe ...... you get the drift. Good luck!
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Re: How To...!!!

Postby lekkilee » Tue Apr 16, 2013 11:19 am

the day I lost my.virginity I wrote my mom a note telling her... and she was perfectly supportive. she didnt aprove of it but she knew it happened and wanted to make me feel safe and respected for telling.her
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Re: How To...!!!

Postby Correa4love » Thu Apr 18, 2013 3:48 am

Ooh my goodness the forums are soo boring now!!
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Re: How To...!!!

Postby girl1234 » Mon Apr 22, 2013 5:17 pm

How old are you btw? I have the same question :D
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Re: How To...!!!

Postby bubblez » Tue Apr 23, 2013 11:26 am

When i lost my verginity i lost my dad at the same time! Its a hard thing to tell ur parents that ur having s*x. Just thought i would tell u! Good luck
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Re: How To...!!!

Postby ria87 » Wed Apr 24, 2013 7:44 pm

In my opinion..it s your life and personal one so no one needs to know. What difference should there be if they object to this ?...you ll do it anyway.
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Re: How To...!!!

Postby faithlove » Wed Apr 24, 2013 9:19 pm

Wow! I think she should be honest that way her mom knows she needs to have the talk and take her to the dr and get condoms and birth control....last thing her mom needs to find out is she's pregnant and dying from aids because she chose not to be honest and educated
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Re: How To...!!!

Postby Shraams » Fri Apr 26, 2013 8:25 pm

I think it depends on how old she is. After a certain age, teenn can go to the doctor and get birth control and be smart enough about protection on their own. This young lady is pretty literate, too. If she's so young that she actually needs her mum to get BC for her, then she should tell her. Otherwise, she could well keep it to herself.
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Re: How To...!!!

Postby mumof3 » Sun May 05, 2013 12:03 pm

Look I'm a mom and I would want my daughter to tell me. I didn't tell my mom but wish I had once I found out I was prego. I could have gotten birth control and not list so many years of growing up. And trust me I would rather hear "mom I'm having intercourse and want to get on birth control" than to hear "mom I'm prego, sorry" and always put your self in their shoes what if you were the parent what would you want your kid to do?
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